Came out

[AlleyCat06]

Hi my name is AlleyCat. This is my first post so I hope it turns out well. Please excuse a bit of backtrack if you find it going on a bit.

I first started wondering if i wasn't straight when i was about 15 or 16 years old. I started asking my friends in school with me what the 'signs' are if you're not straight. Such as repeat notices of another female's butt where i would never have noticed before. One of my favorite things in school was to do fake pics of me kissing other girls to piss off the cheerleaders who kept bugging me about taking their football player boyfriends, where in fact i always ignored and disdained them.

As well as really loud perverted talks with other females that i knew were bi, even to go so far as taking one of my bi friends on a walk about attached to each by her chain up out of the lunchroom up through senior hall and back down to the lunchroom past the same cheerleaders' table. went back to our table unattached ourselves from each other and sat down on opposite sides of the table and kept eating and chatting like we hadn't done anything. EVERYBODY had their jaws dropped and were dead silent. All to get people off my back, and to show them that they weren't hurting me. The most they got was a little annoyance or disdain.

I moved around a lot for the next few years, and didn't have anything but boyfriends. At least until I came up here to Anchorage. Suffice it to say guys and I never worked out well. Even to me fleeing Soldotna in the middle of the night to Anchorage. But I digress on that.  Ive been up here a couple years now, and seeing how much more open everyone seemed to be about others being whatever sexual preference they had, I 'came out' and was entirely relieved and comfortable about it around them. I hadn't done anything more than flirting, playing around with females, but nothing really went much further than kissing, and I didn't find any that really worked to date. Guys still weren't working out.

Then about seven months I started hanging out with Shadow and really liked to be around him, he was the only one that really tried to understand me and stand by me no matter what. He was and is, just funny, intelligent, sexy, witty, loyal... I could go on... but anyways. We would just talk and talk especially when we would just go on walks. We were just there for each other. Well one thing that we talked about was that he always wanted two female partners, not just sexual, like three equal exclusive partners.
One night over at a friend's house of ours he admitted that he liked me. I admitted the same thing but that we wold stay just friends for now. A couple days later he texts me randomly that his wife, who is obviously going to be bi, liked me as more than a friend, after we went out to dinner a few times.  Shes the sweetest, tiniest thing,ever. Just don't piss her off. lol. Very funny, loyal and smart too. Extremely hard working. I think she's the biggest gamer, and artist of all of us. I think it was the next night that we all talked and agreed to be together. We've all been together now for six months. And we are all engaged to each other,  thinking about marriage in a couple years, and all live together.

[AlleyCat06]

Hi my name is AlleyCat. This is my first post so I hope it turns out well. Please excuse a bit of backtrack if you find it going on a bit.

I first started wondering if i wasn't straight when i was about 15 or 16 years old. I started asking my friends in school with me what the 'signs' are if you're not straight. Such as repeat notices of another female's butt where i would never have noticed before. One of my favorite things in school was to do fake pics of me kissing other girls to piss off the cheerleaders who kept bugging me about taking their football player boyfriends, where in fact i always ignored and disdained them.

As well as really loud perverted talks with other females that i knew were bi, even to go so far as taking one of my bi friends on a walk about attached to each by her chain up out of the lunchroom up through senior hall and back down to the lunchroom past the same cheerleaders' table. went back to our table unattached ourselves from each other and sat down on opposite sides of the table and kept eating and chatting like we hadn't done anything. EVERYBODY had their jaws dropped and were dead silent. All to get people off my back, and to show them that they weren't hurting me. The most they got was a little annoyance or disdain.

I moved around a lot for the next few years, and didn't have anything but boyfriends. At least until I came up here to Anchorage. Suffice it to say guys and I never worked out well. Even to me fleeing Soldotna in the middle of the night to Anchorage. But I digress on that.  Ive been up here a couple years now, and seeing how much more open everyone seemed to be about others being whatever sexual preference they had, I 'came out' and was entirely relieved and comfortable about it around them. I hadn't done anything more than flirting, playing around with females, but nothing really went much further than kissing, and I didn't find any that really worked to date. Guys still weren't working out.

Then about seven months I started hanging out with Shadow and really liked to be around him, he was the only one that really tried to understand me and stand by me no matter what. He was and is, just funny, intelligent, sexy, witty, loyal... I could go on... but anyways. We would just talk and talk especially when we would just go on walks. We were just there for each other. Well one thing that we talked about was that he always wanted two female partners, not just sexual, like three equal exclusive partners.
One night over at a friend's house of ours he admitted that he liked me. I admitted the same thing but that we wold stay just friends for now. A couple days later he texts me randomly that his wife, who is obviously going to be bi, liked me as more than a friend, after we went out to dinner a few times.  Shes the sweetest, tiniest thing,ever. Just don't piss her off. lol. Very funny, loyal and smart too. Extremely hard working. I think she's the biggest gamer, and artist of all of us. I think it was the next night that we all talked and agreed to be together. We've all been together now for six months. I came out to my mom and my stepdad out of my family first and it went basically like this: "Mom. I'm bi. And Im with a male and a female." Everybody responds with blown minds, or that's cool. Friends family otherwise. Except Dad. He just doesn't like it. But oh well. And we are all engaged to each other,  thinking about marriage in a couple years, and all live together.


For those of you that read this already my apologies. I forgot to add that part. it's both hilarious and awesome.

[Goman Fox]

Interesting, I never really thought females got much of a hard time about liking women in high school, I guess I was wrong.  I just remember being in high school and it seemed like most of the girls were running around saying they were bisexual (it was "in" for a few years I guess) even though most probably weren't.  And it's always seemed to me that lesbians/bisexual women have been more accepted in the straight male eye of society more, but considering I'm not a woman, I guess I wouldn't notice how it is from that point of view.

I can understand how it might be hard for others to accept right away, not only coming out to them but mentioning having two partners, lol.  I still haven't told anyone in my family, although because of Cat, my mom knows.  He basically came out to her for me, because he wanted to go to a gay bar (the Raven) when I first moved to Anchorage when I was 19, and she needed to come as well.  I actually kinda regret having things happen that way, since I still can't really talk to my mom about being gay very easily, even though she's cool with it, but I also don't know if I would have even told her by now if he hadn't brought it up.

Anyways, your Dad sounds weird, what straight man doesn't like bisexual women?  Well, I guess if it's your daughter it's different, and if you hear that another man has a relationship with two women, I can see where there might be some jealousy or something.  lol.