Sexual Education

[Oni]

Sexual Education.

I would like to invite everyone to the next Young Adults Group. Our next Youth Group will be lead by Reverend Johnathan Jones, and he will be discussing sexual education. Ya I know that topic is, and can be over done at times. But it is an important one, especially in today's world.

Young Adults Group is a place for young adults to come and feel welcome. A place were they might come and find comfort in day to day life. We cover all sorts of topics. From “Finding your inner child” to “Safe Sex.”

We supply food and drinks all you have to do is show. Everyone who comes is welcome.

Please come and enjoy yourselves.

Time : 6:30pm Every other Friday
Location : House Kitsune’ 3531 East 42nd Ave. #424

For more information please go to www.mccanchorage.com and click on the forum link.

If you have any questions or concerns please feel free to contact Oni Kitsune at:

Phone : 646-8065
Email  : Onicat@gci.net

Please come and have a good time, along with meeting some new people.

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[Oni]

This last !yaG event was a smash. we hat I think 13 people there, and Johnathan gave a thrilling talk on sex ed, and the safty of it. Along with some pretty cool um...displays. We had some fun and games and icebreakers. we even had a new face show up. That was awsome.

Some Questions I would like to ask people.

Do you think it is important to practice safe sex?
Have you ever felt "it cant happen to me" and had unprotected sex?
How long should you be with a partner before it is ok to have unprotected sex?
What are the best kinds of condoms?
Is it realistic to "Go with out till your married?"
What are your views on sex, iether with that special some one or with a one night stand?
Should there be rules and guidelines to sex? If so what kind?

[Kritter]

I think sex-ed is very important for everyone to learn and be aware of the possible dangers when having unprotected sex. I mean there was a point when I thought that women don’t get much sexual transmitted diseases from other women, just men. Folks were I wrong!!!. I didn’t realize how much of a danger I put myself when I had my first sexual experience with a 5 people orgy. I could have caught something, but luckily I didn’t.

In my experience the only “protected” sex I had was when I slept with a guy. When I did FWB, it was never protected and now I can’t believe how stupid I was for allowing it to be unprotected. However, now that I know much more, I do feel that protect sex is a must and requirement.

Ladies, be aware that you can get diseases from toys too! I didn’t know about this till I read it online somewhere. So keep those toys protected too. This also qualifies for men who use toys.

When I have a partner, if she has had sex with other folks prior to me, then I would ask if it’s cool with her for the both of us to be checked for. I would go through the same procedure she will go through so she won’t feel totally alone about and, plus, it’s good for me to be checked up too! After the results, if everything is in the green then we can go unprotected from then on.

Hmmm, I personally have had those one night stands and it’s so fun. When doing sex/love it so much better getting support from the other person. With one night stands, it’s only for fucking and once it is over, it’s over. I don’t consider “loving making” as one night stands. Why, when it comes to love making, the folks who are involved know each other well before hand and it’s more emotional than sexual.

As for rules and guidelines for sex, it can differ to person to person. Each has their own limits and expectations when it comes to sex. But for a founding solid rule and guideline for sex, I don’t think there is one. 

[aksnowgirl98]

Yes, I do believe that safe sex is important.
No, I have never had unprotected sex.
You should be together a while and get tested before you begin, and continue getting tested periodically.
Don’t have enough experience to answer that.
That is a personal choice.
The only sex i have had was a cross between (2) one night's stand and sex between friends.  I don’t really regret it, however it was during a time in both our lives that we were both experiencing difficulty with family and personal issues. In retrospect we both could of both made a lot of better decisions. To get to the point of the question, i don’t think im that much of a one night stand person. I'm an emotional person and i need a certain level of personal security with the person i sleep with.
All parties involved should be comfortable and respect each other’s limits.